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Hitachi Magic Wand
Anne: This vibrator never fails to get the job done and has been my best friend for decades. The long handle and big head make it great for lying on top of, or maneuvering between two people. The buzz is pretty strong, which (for me) means orgasms come with very little effort!

G Cap (G Spotter attachment)
Cathy: Like Anne, I'm a huge Hitachi fan, but I keep a curved G-spotter attachment on my wand at all times. You can zero the tip of the attachment in on your clitoris for more focused vibrations, press the entire length of its shaft against your labia, or insert it for dual vibrations.

Tender Touch
Anne: The first vibe I ever owned (purchased when I was about 18), looked like this model. It's so quiet, I could use it in a house full of roommates (who often borrowed it when I was in class), or in bed with a partner whom I didn't want to wake up. The focused buzz made for some powerful and truly delicious orgasms.

Rabbit Pearl
Anne: I think of this as the Marilyn Monroe of vibrators; it's just so sexy and glamorous. It's a vibrator that looks like it's meant for sex. When you're in the mood for something that doesn't look like an appliance or a fake penis, this is the toy. But its real charm comes from the design--it has a rotating shaft meant for insertion, with plastic pearls inside that make a "snap, crackle and pop" sound when in use. Attached to the shaft is a little bunny, whose ears flick and vibrate the clit. The dildo-with-clit-vibe combo is great.

Flipper Flicker
Anne: If you've read anything Cathy and I've written, you know we mostly eschew the goal-oriented, stereotypical sexual ideal—simultaneous orgasms during intercourse. But...that doesn't mean it can't be a fun part of the sexual repertoire, and this little toy offers a big boost for women like me who don't come from penetration alone. The stretchy cock ring slips over his penis with the dolphin facing up, so that during intercourse, the vibrator flicks the woman's clit. It's fun to experiment with rhythm and technique.

Remote Butterfly
Anne: This is a great vibe to have around if your partner wants in on the action. You get to wear the toy, he/she gets to operate the controls. When it's just you controlling a vibe, it's much harder to prolong your pleasure (orgasms are so irresistible!), but this lets you have fun with anticipation and release. Plus, if you wear it under your clothes in public, you're in for a pretty good time.

Natural Contours
Cathy: Back when I worked in a vibrator store, I spent many frustrated hours trying to make grotty pink rubber sex toys look appealing on a display shelf. The Natural Contours clitoral vibrators (designed by adult filmmaker Candida Royalle) are a prime example of how sex toy aesthetics have improved exponentially since the late 80s. Sleek and sexy, they curve in an elegant arc against the vulva. They're strong, quiet, and innocuous looking—great for travel.